Ukwehlelwa zinhlupho kungaphambanisa impilakahle yethu ngendlela ezitshiyeneyo.

• Inhlupho zenza abantu bakhathazeke futhi ukukhathazeka okwesikhathi eside kungenza umuntu acine egula.

• Eminye imonakalo ingenza izibhedlela zicine zisandelwa futhi lemithi ingaseneli.

• Ezinye inhlupho zingenza ukuthi abantu bacine bengaselamali eyeneleyo futhi sebesehluleka ukuthenga ukudla okwakha umzimba kanye lemithi yokwelapha.

• Ukugula kakhulu lokukhathazeka kungenza ucine usenza izinqumo ezingenza ungasayinaki impilakahle yakho. Lokhu kungenza ucine usugula kakhulu.

• Nxa ungekela ukudinga usizo kwabezempilakahle isimo singacina sisiba sibi kakhulu, kwezinye izikhathi ungacina usulahlekelwa yimpilo yakho.

• Ukuba lempilakahle kuzakunceda ukuthi wazi okumele ukwenze nxa usuphakathi kohlupho.

• Kungelani lokuthi ulemali loba hatshi ungenelisa ukuvikela impilakahle yakho.

Umuntu ohlakaniphileyo uyayibona ingozi isesekhatshana futhi abesedinga amaqhinga okuyibalekela nxa kuvuma. Lokhu kuyasebenza lasendabeni yempilakahle. Inhlanzeko ingakunceda ukuthi ungabanjwa yimikhuhlane kumbe ukuthi umkhuhlane ungakuqineli. Zama ngazo zonke izindlela ukuthi uzivikele.

“Mina lomkami sibaleqiniso lokuthi sihlala sihlanzekile futhi lekhaya lethu lihlala lihlanzekile ukuze singachithi imali enengi sisiya kubodokotela futhi sithenga lemithi.”—U-Andreas. *