olukkanerigal enbadhu vaalkkaiyil nīngal kadaippidikka virumbugira sila tharaadharangalai kurikkindrana. udhaaranatthukku, oru petrōraaga ellaa vishayangalilum nērmaiyaaga irukka muyarchi seigirīrgalaa? appadiyendraal, idhē olukkaneriyai ungal pillaigalukkum katrukkodukka ninaippīrgal.

olukkanerigal nalla palakkangalaiyum kurikkiradhu. udhaaranatthukku, nalla palakkangal irukkum oruvar surusuruppaanavaraaga, nyaayamaanavaraaga, matravargalmēl akkaraiyullavaraaga iruppaar. indha nalla gunangalai avar siru vayadhilirundhē valartthiruppaar.

baibil niyamam: “nadakka vēndiya valiyil nadakka pillaiyai palakku. vayadhaanaalum avan adhaivittu vilaga maattaan.”—nīdhimoligal 22:6.

indha tholilnutpa yugatthil, olukkanerigal rombavē avasiyam. “endha nēratthulayum selfōnla ketta vishayangala paarkka mudiyum . . . namma pillainga namma pakkatthulayē utkaarndhukittukūda asingamaana padangala paarkka mudiyum!” endru ammaavaaga irukkum kēran solgiraar.

baibil niyamam: ‘mudhirchiyullavargal, sari edhu, thavaru edhu enbadhai piritthu paarkka thangaludaiya pagutthariyum thirangalai payitruvikkiraargal.’—ebireyar 5:14.

nalla palakkangalum avasiyam. ‘nandri,’ ‘dhayavuseidhu’ pōndra vaartthaigalai payanpadutthuvadhum, matravargalidam karisanaiyaaga nadandhukolvadhum idhil adangum. indru, idhupōndra nalla palakkangalai paarppadhē abūrvamaaga irukkiradhu; ēnendraal, janangalai alla, elaktraanik karuvigalaiyē makkal adhigamaaga nēsikkiraargal.

baibil niyamam: “matravargal ungalukku enna seiya vēndumendru virumbugirīrgalō, adhaiyē nīngalum avargalukku seiyungal.”—lūkkaa 6:31.

ungal olukkanerigalai matravargalukku theriyappadutthungal. udhaaranamaaga, kalyaanatthukku munbu seks vaitthukkolvadhu thavaru endru petrōrgalaal karpikkappadum tīnēj pillaigal appadippatta seyalil īdupaduvadhillai enbadhai aaraaichigal kaattugindrana.

tips: samība seidhi ondrai solli, olukkanerigalai patri pēsa aarambiyungal. udhaaranatthukku, oru padukolaiyai patriya seidhi velivandhirundhaal, nīngal ippadi pēsa aarambikkalaam: “silar indha maadhiri kōbattha kaatturadhu kulainadunga vaikkudhilla? avanga ivlō kōbakkaaarangalaa aaguradhukku enna kaaranamnu ninaikkura?”

“nalladhu edhu kettadhu edhunnu pillaingalukku theriyalannaa, nalladha seiyaradhaa, kettadha seiyaradhaannu avangalaala thīrmaanikka mudiyaama pōyidum.”—braandan.

nalla palakkangalai sollikkodungal. “dhayavuseidhu,” “nandri” pōndra vaartthaigalai payanpadutthuvadharkum, matravargalai madhippadharkum chinna pillaigalaalkūda katrukkolla mudiyum. “pillaigal thangalai thani nabargalaaga paarkkaamal, oru kudumbatthin paagamaaga, oru palliyin paagamaaga alladhu oru samudhaayatthin paagamaaga paarkka katrukkollumpōdhu, avargal matravargalidam karisanaiyōdu nadandhukolvaargal; thangalukku prayōjanamaana vishayangalai mattumē seiyaamal matravargalukku prayōjanamaana vishayangalai seiya palagikkolvaargal” endru pērenting vitthaut baardars endra butthagam solgiradhu.

tips: vīttu vēlaigalai seiya solli pillaigalidam sollungal; idhan mūlam, matravargalukku udhavi seiya avargal palagikkolvaargal.

“pillainga vīttu vēlaigala seiya ippōvē katthukkittaa, sondha kaalla nikka aarambikkumpōdhu adhayellaam seiradhukku kashtappada maattaanga. poruppugala niraivētthuradhukku palagiyiruppaanga.”—tēraa.