poruppōdu nadandhukolgiravargal nambagamaanavargalaaga iruppaargal. kodukkappatta vēlaigalai sariyaagavum nēratthukkullum seidhu mudippaargal.

periyavargal seiyum ellaavatraiyum chinna pillaigalaal seiya mudiyaadhudhaan; aanaalum, avargalaalkūda poruppōdu nadappadharku katrukkolla mudiyum. oru butthagam (Parenting Without Borders) ippadi solgiradhu: “kulandhaigal 15 maadhatthilirundhē petrōr solvadhai seiya aarambippaargal. 18 maadham aanadhum, petrōr seivadhaiyellaam seiya aasaippaduvaargal. niraiya kalaachaarangalil, pillaigalukku 5-7 vayadhaagumpōdhu, petrōr avargalukku vīttu vēlaigalai kodukka aarambikkiraargal. andha vayadhilēyē avargalaal perumbaalaana vēlaigalai nandraaga seiya mudigiradhu.”

niraiya naadugalil, ilainyargal vīttaivittu pōi sondha kaalil nirka muyarchi seigiraargal. aanaal, adhu mudiyaamal pōvadhaal petrōridamē thirumbi vandhuvidugiraargal. panatthai sariyaaga selavu seiyavō, vīttai gavanikkavō, andraada poruppugalai sarivara seiyavō petrōr avargalukku sollittharaadhadhudhaan silasamayangalil adharku kaaranam.

adhanaal, ippōdhirundhē poruppugalai sariyaaga seiya ungal pillaigalukku sollikkodungal. “pillaigalai padhinettu vayadhuvarai potthi potthi vaitthukkondu, adhan piragu thidīrendru kannai katti kaattil viduvadhupōl indha ulagatthil vittuvidaadhīrgal” endru oru butthagam (How to Raise an Adult) solgiradhu.

vīttu vēlaigalai kodungal.

baibil aalōsanai: “ellaa vidhamaana kadina ulaippum nalla palanai tharum.”—nīdhimoligal 14:23.

podhuvaaga, appaa-ammaavōdu sērndhu vēlai seiya pillaigalukku pidikkum. iyalbaagavē avargalukku irukkum indha aasaiyai nīngal saadhagamaaga payanpadutthikkondu, avargalukku vīttu vēlaigalai kodukkalaam.

idhai seiya sila petrōrgal thayangugiraargal. ‘pillaingalukku ērkenavē thalaikkumēla hōmvark irukku, idhula naamavēra edhukku avangala kashtappadutthanum?’ endru ninaikkiraargal.

aanaal, vīttil vēlai seiyum pillaigaldhaan perumbaalum palliyil nandraaga padikkiraargal. ēnendraal, vīttu vēlaigalai seiyumpōdhu, poruppugalai ētrukkollavum avatrai seidhu mudikkavum avargal katrukkolgiraargal. “chinna vayadhil, adhuvum udhavi seiya vēndumendra aasai irukkumpōdhē, avargalukku naam vēlai tharaavittaal, matravargalukku udhavigal seivadhu mukkiyamalla endru avargal ninaikka aarambitthuviduvaargal. . . . thangalukku vēndiyadhaiyellaam  matravargal seidhuthara vēndumendrukūda edhirpaarkka aarambitthuviduvaargal” endru naam ērkenavē paarttha butthagam (Parenting Without Borders) solgiradhu.

appadiyendraal, pillaigal vīttu vēlaigalai seiyumpōdhu, matravargalukku udhavi seiyavum suyanalam illaamal nadandhukollavum katrukkolgiraargal. adhōdu, thaangalum kudumbatthin oru mukkiyamaana paagam enbadhaiyum, vīttu vēlaigal seivadhu thangalukku irukkum oru mukkiyamaana poruppu enbadhaiyum avargal purindhukolgiraargal.

thavaru seidhaal vilaivugalai sandhikka vēndum enbadhai puriya vaiyungal.

baibil aalōsanai: “aalōsanaiyai kēttu, butthimadhiyai ētrukkol. appōdhudhaan edhirkaalatthil nyaanamullavanaaga aavaai.”—nīdhimoligal 19:20.

ungal pillai ēdhaavadhu thavaru seiyalaam. oruvēlai, innoruvarudaiya porulai theriyaatthanamaaga udaitthuvidalaam. aanaal, adhai mūdimaraikka nīngal muyarchi seiyaadhīrgal. adhan vilaivugalai sandhikka avanai palakkungal. oruvēlai, avan mannippu kēttuvittu, udaittha porulukku badhilaaga vērondrai vaangi tharalaam.

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